Streamed live on February 10, 2025

Ben and Diane Thornal met during the Vietnam War while serving in different capacities. Ben was a helicopter pilot assigned to the 101st Airborne Division at Camp Eagle, near Da Nang, while Diane was a Red Cross volunteer with the Supplemental Recreational Activities Overseas (SRAO), commonly known as a Donut Dolly. Their work placed them in the heart of the conflict, where they supported troops in different ways. Diane joined the Donut Dollies after graduating college, motivated by a desire to serve her country and work for the Red Cross.

She was stationed in various locations throughout Vietnam, traveling by helicopter, truck, and jeep to visit troops, play morale-boosting games, and provide a brief escape from the war. Her service took her to dangerous areas, including a night spent in a cave at Firebase Rendezvous, where she and another volunteer were caught in enemy fire.

Ben arrived in Vietnam in March 1969 as a reconnaissance pilot, flying light observation helicopters known as Loaches. His missions involved locating enemy forces, often drawing fire to reveal enemy positions for Cobra gunships to attack. He frequently faced danger, with two of his wingmen being shot down. Despite the risks, he found flying exhilarating and advanced to become a standardization instructor pilot.

Their paths crossed at Camp Eagle, where Diane and other Donut Dollies were eating lunch in the mess hall. Ben, newly assigned to division headquarters, spotted Diane and decided to sit with her. A casual conversation led to Diane mentioning her difficulty finding Arid Extra Dry deodorant, a rare commodity in Vietnam.

Ben, having recently picked up two cans, offered one to her, making a humorous, mock-official presentation on behalf of the 101st Airborne Division. Diane was charmed by his humor, and their connection grew as they spent evenings together, walking and attending outdoor movie screenings.

Their relationship deepened over the months, despite the war’s uncertainties. When Diane was reassigned south to Phan Rang Air Base, their separation tested their commitment. Ben made a special trip to visit her at Christmas, officially proposing with a ring. They later married, solidifying a bond that had formed in the middle of a war zone.

Their story is one of dedication—both to their country and to each other—set against the backdrop of one of America’s most tumultuous conflicts.

We’re grateful to UPMC for Lifefor sponsoring this event!